Best Reptile Pets for Handling (and Interaction Tips)

Updated September 20, 2021
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Reptiles make fascinating pets, although some common species owned as pets are more for observing than handling. If you're new to reptile ownership and want a pet that you can interact with and handle, there are several good choices.

Bearded Dragon

Bearded dragons, or "beardies," are one of the most popular pet reptiles. They actually appear to enjoy being handled, and beardie owners will let their scaly friends hang out with them on their shoulders or even find them snoozing on their laps like a cat. They're also relatively easy to care for compared to other pet reptiles. They not only like being handled, but in general are quite friendly.

Leopard Gecko

Another popular lizard that's easy to care for is the colorful leopard gecko. They are known for being calm when handled, especially if they've been acclimated to it from an early age. Unlike other types of geckos, they will also grow their tail back if it breaks off due to an injury, which makes them hardier if you want to handle them a lot. Leopard geckos are small enough to hang out on your hands and some owners enjoy allowing them to roam from hand to shoulder to even sitting on their head.

Corn Snake

Beginning snake owners are often steered toward the corn snake because of its docile nature. They also don't get larger than 6 feet in length, and their girth is not as thick as that of some of the larger snakes available. This makes them easier to handle, even for younger owners like children and teenagers.

Chinese Water Dragon

Chinese water dragons aren't necessarily the best choice for new reptile owners because they have more care requirements, including keeping their habitat appropriately humid. They are a good choice though for a reptile lover who enjoys the look of the iguana but wants a friendlier version. PetSmart list the Chinese water dragon as one of seven reptiles you can "chill with."

Blue-Tongued Skink

Not as well known as the more popular options above, the blue-tongued skink can be a great choice for a handling-friendly reptile. You do need to acclimate them to it from an early age or they may become nippy. Well-socialized blue-tongued skinks enjoy hanging out outside of their tank and spending time with their human. They also are not nocturnal like some other lizards, so they're more likely to be awake and open to interaction when you're up and about.

Argentine Black and White Tegu

Another pet lizard that isn't as well known is the Argentine tegu. These lizards are not only friendly but they've even been described as "dog-like" in their behavior toward their owners. They even can be house trained and allowed to roam your house, though this isn't advisable if you have other pets. They do require interaction though, as lack of proper care and socialization can lead to aggression.

Ball Python

Ball pythons who are properly acclimated to handling when they're young can grow into adult snakes who are comfortable being handled. They are very calm snakes, which is why they're one of the most popular species for pets. Ball python owners enjoy letting their snakes wrap themselves around their arms or waist, where they'll happily hang out. It's important to note that if you're looking for a small pet, this one may not be for you. Ball pythons can get up to 6 feet long, requiring larger habitats and more upkeep.

Can Reptiles Bond with Their Owners?

Reptiles aren't normally thought of as animals with the complex emotional range of a cat or dog. Unlike domesticated species, a reptile hasn't been bred over generations to want to interact with people and display affiliative behavior. However, they can feel primal emotions such as fear, aggression, and what could be called "happiness" or physical pleasure.

Owner Interaction Increases Bond

Reptiles that have been frequently handled and fed by their owners can also show behavior that indicates they "know" their owner and welcome interaction with them. Like any other species of pet, such as your dog or cat, using positive reinforcement and classical conditioning can create a pleasurable emotional response in your lizard or snake. If your reptile knows that interacting with you means food, stroking and things they like, and they're approached calmly with respect for their specific handling needs, they will develop a stronger bond with you over time.

Proper Reptile Handling

When handling your reptile, it's important to observe some general guidelines that are the same across species.


Whether your lizard is a small as a gecko or as large as an adult beardie, always make sure that all four of their feet are supported.

  • Depending on their size, you may have to use both hands or even involve your forearms in supporting the lizard's body weight.
  • You should also always be aware of where the lizard's head is to avoid scaring them and getting nipped.
  • Never grab a lizard by their tail or lift them this way, as many lizards are autonomic, which means their tails will come off, and depending on the lizard, may not grow back.


Obviously, snakes do not have limbs, but their full weight and length should be supported, which may mean using both hands or your forearms for a larger snake.

  • Use slow, gentle motions when handling your snake and allow them to move onto you from their tank, if possible.
  • Many snakes like curling around your arm as if you were a tree branch. Do not allow them to do this around your neck or head, as this can be potentially dangerous.
  • Always watch the snake's head, as a startled and frightened snake can move very quickly to bite if you're not paying attention.
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Finding the Best Reptiles for Handling

If you're not sure which reptile is the right one for you, visit your local reptile store and ask staff for their advice, as well as your local reptile-friendly veterinarian. You might also look for local reptile clubs in your area via Google or Make sure you do your research and learn how to properly handle and socialize your reptile from the start to develop a beautiful future relationship.

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